It is with a heavy heart that I share the news of the passing of my love, my husband, my life partner. While our hearts are absolutely broken, we could not be happier for him that he is finally at peace. He endured much on his journey with Alzheimer’s and mixed dementia.

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He was born September 24, 1935 to Margarite Therrian and Robert Asam, his father was a Detroit Police Officer who died from an injury received in the line of duty when Danny was 2 yrs. of age. He grew up in the projects of Detroit and at age 17 joined the United States Navy serving in the Korean Conflict.

He was one of the fortunate ones to find a profession that he absolutely loved, he was a hairstylist and salon owner for 50+ years where he mentored, taught, and coached many successful stylists. There was never a dull moment, he created a work atmosphere that was second to none.

“Live so that when your children think of fairness, caring, and integrity, they think of you.”

He had a kind heart and the most generous spirit. He has been known to help in any way he possibly could whether it was physical labor or financial help.

The true loves of his life and his pride and joy are his children. Danielle (Matt) Taylor, Jessica (Alan Risavy) Asam, Cameron Asam, and Kailie (Kurt) DuBois. His 5th acquired son Marcus Collins who gave him his first grand baby Coast Eva Collins who affectionately calls him Papa, and whom he adored.

He had the most adventurous spirit, marking his 75th and 80th birthdays with skydiving. He coached his kids sports teams, never missing even a practice. He passed on his love of skiing and the serene, peaceful lull of the ocean whilst SCUBA diving to each of his children creating lasting memories.

Loving someone and being loved by someone is worth whatever price you are faced with paying, it should always make us happy. It has been my privilege to love and be loved by a man with the most beautiful heart and soul.

His fervent request was that we celebrate his life and not dwell in sadness. We will try!

I vow to do my best in this space between us created by our new realities. Until we meet again my love, know that I will love you forever, may your soul smile in the embrace of your anam cara.